Commenting on my previous posts my Dear Readers have often been mentioning the Woman Interested in Sex Only (WISO) whose existence apparently keeps being ignored in my posts. In response to the popular demand I decided to write this post solely about her.
Let me start by saying that I do not judge the WISO. I believe that a woman is entitled to do with her body what she pleases as much as a man is entitled to do so. Having said that, I don’t necessarily think that a WISO or her male counterpart MISO (Man Interested in Sex Only) is a perfectly balanced, happy and psychologically sorted individual as their pursuit of the sexual part of relations only, especially as a life long attitude, may be a display of their fear of intimacy, commitment or some other underlying issue.
I’ll also allow myself to generalize and say that women in general tend to be less interested in sex-only relations. Even when I tried to google “women interested only in sex”, this and similar searches were inconclusive and most of the results were changing the word “women” to “men”. There are exceptions to the rule for sure and there is also a period in life when what we would generally call a relationship girl becomes a WISO, namely “rebound time”. If you’re freshly after a break-up and brokenhearted, no-strings-attached sex may seem an appealing option until you’re ready to open again for a deeper (your mind is dirty! I mean on emotional level too!) relation.
I think the reason why I’m not mentioning WISOs too often is because they don’t seem to have the same problems as most of my female friends do. In other words, the conversation rarely goes along the lines “Zloty Baby, I’m really struggling to find men for casual sex, do you maybe know some guys who just want to fuck BUT under no circumstances are looking for something serious?” (alternatively “Zloty Baby, do you know any hot guys interested in getting a fuck buddy?”). I’m not saying that conversations like these don’t really happen between females, I’m just saying I have little experience with them. Similarly, I don’t know much about BDSM and poly-amorous relationships so I’m not going to write about these topics either 😉
So, Dear Readers, please tell me – have you met many WISOs? Do you agree with the idea that a woman can have casual sex and have so many partners as she pleases? Or does the judgmental word “slut” come to your mind when you think about someone like this? Last but not least, if you are judgmental are you equally harsh with men who like casual sex?